Being a good Dominant one is different than being a control freak! Yes, the Dominant one takes the control in the right way, and the submissive must obey. Get easily angry at sub because the scene goes bad or the dominant one doesn’t get the right response from the sub, is NOT THE MARK of a good Dom|me, this one maybe just a control freak, not a real Dom|me.

The Categories of Dominant [P.1]

The Collector Dominant.
The Collector is focused on building a stable of submissives similar to a harem. For the Collector, quantity always trumps quality. In his|her way of thinking, the measure of a Dom|me’s standing is how many submissives he|she can accumulate, without much regard for who, or even what, those submissives may be. It is relatively common for a Collector Dom|me to attempt to collar a submissive mere minutes after meeting her for the first time in an online chat room or on a BDSM social network.
Best match: The The Pseudo Submissive.

The Daddy or Mommy Dominant.
Daddy & Mommy Dom|mes find fulfillment in the relationship dynamic that exists between the Dominant and submissive, who is usually referred to as baby, babygirl, babyboy, little one, or other pet name that reinforces the sub’s child-like status in the relationship. A Daddy or Mommy Dom|me craves a sub with the ability to trust absolutely, a spirit of wide-eyed innocence and playfulness, an eagerness for guidance, and no-holds-barred adoration.
Best match: The Little Submissive / The Pet Submissive / The Brat Submissive.

The FemDomme Mistress.
The FemDomme is always a dominant female who utilizes a unique combination of force and sexual role reversal. She may prefer either male or female submissives, and is sometimes referred to as a Domme, Domina, Dominatrix, or Mistress. A sub-category of FemDomme is the FinDomme, a contraction of Financial Dominant. There is often a significant element of misandry (hatred of men) which may be real or role-played involved in the FemDomme Topping style.
Best matches: The Painslut Submissive / The Cow-Pig Submissive.

The Ineffable Dominant. The Ineffable Dom|me is typically a Dominant who has been in the D/s lifestyle for several years or longer and has, mostly through trial and error, learned what does and doesn’t work best in his|her D/s relationships. He|She has consciously explored and borrowed traits and characteristics from the other Dominant categories. The synergy created with each new partner brings new facets to the Ineffable Dom|me’s unique (and sometimes indescribable) Topping style. Best matches: The Warrior Princess Submissive / The Acolyte Submissive.